When Children Witness Domestic Abuse: The Hidden Victims
Domestic abuse is often viewed through the lens of the adults directly involved, but behind closed doors, children are frequently the silent witnesses, absorbing fear, tension, and trauma that can shape their entire lives. Even when they are not the direct targets of abuse, simply living in an environment where violence occurs can leave deep and lasting scars. In Family Law, a child who has witnessed domestic abuse is recognised as a victim in their own right.
The Misconception: “If They’re Not Hurt, They’re Fine”
A common misconception is that children are only affected if they are physically harmed. In reality, witnessing arguments, threats, intimidation, or destruction of property between caregivers is enough to create significant trauma.
Children may:
- See the abuse happen
- Hear it from another room
- Notice injuries afterward
- Sense the heavy tension that lingers long after an incident
These experiences can lead to emotional responses such as anxiety, hypervigilance, withdrawal, and low self-esteem. Heartbreakingly, many children blame themselves for the actions of those who should be their protectors.
The Lasting Impact
Exposure to domestic abuse during childhood can have profound effects well into adulthood. It is therefore vital to give children the tools and support they need to overcome these experiences.
Domestic abuse thrives in secrecy. By talking openly about its impact on children, and by supporting survivors of all ages, we take meaningful steps toward breaking cycles of violence.
Children deserve homes filled with safety, respect, and love. When we recognise the warning signs, believe their experiences, and invest in their healing, we help build a future where those cycles are not repeated but replaced with resilience and hope.
The Festive Period: A Time of Increased Risk
As we approach the festive season, it is sadly known that domestic incidents often increase, putting children at greater risk of harm or exposure to harm.
Where to Get Help
Emergency: If children are in immediate danger, call 999.
Support Services: For advice, emotional support, or refuge, charities such as Cranstoun, Shropshire Domestic Abuse Service, or West Mercia Women’s Aid can assist.
Child Welfare Concerns: Contact your local Children’s Services team.
How PCB Solicitors Can Help
At PCB Solicitors, we are passionate about helping victims of domestic abuse reach for a safe and brighter future for themselves and their children. If you need legal advice about safeguarding yourself and/or your children, please contact us:
📞Call: 01952403000
📧 Email: Rebecca.bailey@pcblaw.co.uk